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WOULD YOU
TRY AGAIN TO QUIT SMOKING IF YOU KNEW OF A WAY THAT WAS FAIL- PROOF?
There is such
a method. The really good news is that this method can be followed
not only by average men and women but even the weak. Those who have
apparently been failures all of their lives can gain lasting success,
permanent freedom from tobacco and a sense of dignity and value
never before experienced.
The author has
helped others who were heavy smokers for decades, to experience
this success and has not found one person in more than twenty years
who has followed all of the principles of the method now to be explained
without permanent success.
This method
is not based on anything mystical but rather on thoroughly researched
scientific laws which govern the body and the mind. There are not
only physical laws in the universe but also mental or spiritual
laws, and if you know what these laws are and are willing to obey
them, your success is absolutely certain.
Before we explain
what you need to know and do, however, we need to investigate three
important questions: (1) Why did you start smoking?
(2)Why is it so hard to quit?
(3) Why do you want to quit?
WHY YOU STARTED
You need to know something about why you began to smoke because if
those motivations still exist, they will make it harder for you to
quit. A common time to start smoking is twelve years of age. This
is a time when a child is seeking adult status in the world. Because
of the example of his older peers or adults whom he knows, smoking
often has seemed to be a way to become more “grown- up.” People who
were role models for you may have been a large part of this influence.
Your subconscious mind accepted the constant input from advertising
and the example of others that there was a real benefit to smoking.
This is a lie. Smoking does not make you more mature, smarter or in
any way better or more attractive. In fact, it does just the opposite.
Smoking causes
constriction of blood vessels and at the same time lowers the oxygen
delivering capacity of the blood. This reduces the delivery of oxygen
to the brain as well as other vital organs of the body. Habitual
smoking causes you to appear elderly faster and decreases your beauty
and attractiveness. It does not improve you mentally or physically.
Smoking weakens the body so that the smoker has less endurance,
higher mortality and more sickness.
Diseases which
are especially increased by smoking include the following: lung
cancer and cancers of other parts of the respiratory system; cancer
in the urinary bladder, the pancreas and the kidney; heart disease,
high blood pressure, stroke and other vascular diseases; emphysema,
chronic bronchitis, peptic ulcers; various mouth disorders such
as tooth loss, jawbone deterioration, inflamed gums, and pyorrhea
and oral inflammations. Smokers are absent from work more often
and have more headaches and coughs than non- smokers.
ESPECIALLY FOR
WOMEN
For women, smoking presents shocking hazards. Smoking mothers have
more premature babies, more stillbirths and miscarriages, and more
babies who die a short time after birth. Babies born to smoking mothers
have more congenital abnormalities. A woman who smokes and takes oral
contraceptives containing estrogen increases her chances of a heart
attack several times.
In addition
to all of this, smoking decreases your ability to experience pleasure—
for example, it decreases taste sensitivity so that you have less
capacity to enjoy food. Your ability to experience pleasure is based
on your sensitivity, and this is lessened by all narcotics.
SO WHY IS IT
SO HARD TO QUIT?
Nicotine causes addiction. After a person is addicted to nicotine
by habitual smoking, to cease smoking produces physical symptoms.
Symptoms which habitual smokers experience when they stop smoking
include irritability, muscle pain, headache, nausea, inability to
sleep and jittery nerves. These symptoms are not imaginary because
when you quit smoking, measurable physiological changes occur, such
as changes in heart rate, blood pressure and in the electrical waves
of the brain. Withdrawal symptoms, however, are not the only reason
that it is difficult to quit smoking.
A number of
social and psychological habits are often intertwined with the smoking
habit. Smoking has often become associated with every major event
of the day. For example, a smoker often takes out a cigarette every
time he has a cup of coffee. An important business decision or meeting
is often associated with a smoke. A change of pace, such as getting
in a car to drive to work or sitting down to relax, is often associated
with a smoke. So, every major start or stop or pressure or change
of pace during the day is often associated with smoking. But even
these are not all of the reasons that it is hard to quit smoking.
Smoking is also
a physical habit. The hand reaches for the pack and a cigarette
is retrieved. It is placed in the mouth and a lighting device is
ignited. The inhale to kindle the end is accompanied by the fondling
of the cigarette by the lips and later the playing with it by the
hand. Later, ashes are flicked out, and finally, it is stamped out.
These activities become deeply ingrained habits which the habitual
smoker has repeated many thousands of times. Since smoking is an
all- pervasive habit which has chemical, physical and mental or
spiritual components, any rational attempt to quit must have an
attack plan which includes physical, chemical and spiritual components.
WHY DO YOU WANT
TO QUIT?
Since smoking is an all- pervasive habit having physical, chemical
and spiritual components, the masons why you want to quit are often
the determining factors as to whether or not you will be permanently
successful. You probably do not have the appropriate motivation right
now to quit smoking permanently. If your motivation had been perfect,
you would have been successful before and would not be reading this.
Do not worry about that. One of the major purposes of this booklet
is to help you acquire the proper motivation through a series of tested
techniques. The result will be that you will acquire a power that
most smokers desiring to quit have never experienced.
HOW TO GET STARTED
The first thing to know about how to quit smoking is that you need
help, and the second thing to know is that all of the help in the
universe will not give you victory without your determined, persistent
effort.
We will study
the first thing first— how you can get help to quit smoking.
HOW TO GET HELP
TO BE FREE FROM TOBACCO
It was not long before midnight on April 14, 1912. The ocean liner
Californian was on its way to Boston from London. As Charles Groves,
the ship*s third officer, sat on the top deck, he saw, several miles
away, the lights of another ship speeding westward. As this ship was
rapidly passing his own, he saw a splendid burst of lights, revealing
a large passenger liner. Suddenly, however, it seemed that the big
ship stopped and put outmost of her lights. It did not occur to him
that perhaps the lights were still on but only appeared to go out
because the ship was no longer broadside but had swerved sharply to
the left.
That night,
when help was near, over fifteen hundred people lost their lives
in one of the worst ship disasters of history because of no communication.
Help was near, but there was no communication. So, when the Titanic
went down, nobody was there to help.
DROWNING WITHIN
REACH OF HELP
There are millions of people today who have a problem with tobacco
and are ready to sink. Many are sinking in an abyss of smoke while
help is available. What if a man was drowning and when a life buoy
was thrown to him he refused to take it because he did not know if
the rope or the buoy or the rescuer were trustworthy. He has no confidence,
no faith. That man will drown because he cannot save himself and he
is unwilling to accept outside help.
The man who
is drowning must choose to believe in the person who is out to save
him. If he believes and if he acts on that belief by taking hold
of the help that is made available, he will be delivered. He will
be saved. The tragedy is that there are so many people whose bodies
are drowning in an ocean of smoke who will not ask for or accept
the help that is available.
HELP IS AVAILABLE!
Wonderful help is available. Through an ancient prophet, God says,
Call unto Me and I will answer you, and show you great and mighty
things, which you do not know (Jeremiah 33: 3).
And through
the apostle Paul, God declares that He is able to do exceedingly
abundantly above all that we can ask or even think (Ephesians 3:
20). So, outside help is available. There is powerful help available,
and many millions of people have found in this outside help the
answer to the problem of self- control. Your nature may be so weakened
through continual indulgence of wrong habits that it is impossible
for you in your own strength to resist the craving for nicotine.
You may be literally a slave to tobacco, but nonetheless, there
is help available for you.
HOW CAN YOU
GET THIS HELP?
1. Ask.
Acknowledge that you have a problem for which you need divine help,
and ask for divine help. Jesus said, Ask, and you will receive. Everyone
who asks receives (Matthew 7: 7).
2. Make a commitment.
God does not force the will of any human being. He does not want
blind submission or unreasoning control. God does not use force.
In order for Him to deliver you from the slavery of tobacco, you
must be willing to make a commitment— choose to yield your will
to Him so that a change can be worked out in your life.
3. Surrender
your will to Him.
A lot of people in our world are do- it- yourselves. There are some
things that we apparently can do ourselves. However, if you have
found that you cannot stop smoking by yourself, you need to surrender
your will to God in order to receive the divine help that will set
you free from the slavery of bad habits.
Although you
will find it a struggle to do this, surrendering your will to Him
is vital if you are to have permanent success. To surrender the
will to God means to accept Him to be our Lord and Master in all
things, to acknowledge ourselves to be His servants, ready always
to yield obedience to His commands. You can do it if you choose
to. The surrender of your will to God*s will, moment by moment,
is the vital key to success.
4. Are you in
earnest?
God has promised, you will seek Me and find Me when you shall search
for Me with all your heart (Jeremiah 29: 13). If that is your decision,
there is no question that a divine miracle is going to take place
in your life to give you victory over tobacco. You are on your way
to fullness of joy and pleasures forevermore (Psalm 16: 11).
5. Exercise
your power of choice.
You may have decided that you are weak in moral power. You may consider
yourself a victim of doubt. Your life may seem to be continually
controlled by your past when you were constantly losing self- control
and smoking. The resolutions that you made on New Year*s day may
have fallen apart immediately. It may seem to you that it is impossible
for you to control your thoughts, and by yourself, this is true.
Your habit of smoking, your passionate craving for nicotine, your
affection for this vice may be humanly uncontrollable. The knowledge
of this causes you to have feelings of despair. There is a way out,
however. What is that way out? The way out depends on your power
of decision or choice.
You cannot change
your heart or your affections for your past habits or your passionate
cravings for nicotine. You cannot change your impulses, but you
can make a decision. You can choose to yield your will to divine
power. If you do this, divine power will work in you, and your nature
will be brought under the control of a divine spirit. A change will
occur in your affections and in your thoughts, giving you power
to be free from tobacco.
The Scripture
says, If anyone destroys the temple of God, him will God destroy,
for the temple of God is holy, which temple you are (I Corinthians
3: 17). If you have decided to make a decision to live a life that
is pure— free from the defilement of tobacco— here is what to pray:
“Father in heaven, I choose to surrender my will and all lam to
You. I choose to seek You with all of my heart and live by every
word that comes out of Your mouth. I choose to live a healthy life
and not destroy myself with tobacco. Please help me, for Jesus*
sake. Amen.” Over and over throughout the day, you should breath
this prayer to God— “Father, I choose to live a healthy life and
not defile myself with tobacco. Please help me as You have promised,
for I pray in Jesus* name. Amen.”
6. Why many
fail to receive help.
It is fine to have desires to do the right thing, but if you stop
there, nothing will happen. Millions of people are hoping and desiring
to quit smoking, but they do not come to the point of yielding their
will to a divine influence. They do not make a decision to yield
their will to divine power.
If you exercise
your will and make a decision, make a commitment to God about your
smoking problem, you are going to experience divine strength in
your life which will hold you steadfast. If you constantly yield
your will to this divine power, you will be enabled to live a new
life, a life of self- control, a life in which you will be in control
of your thoughts, your affections, your cravings, your impulses
and your past smoking habit. All of this is possible to you if you
make a decision to yield your will to divine power.
God is interested
above all things that you may prosper in all things and be in health
(III John 2). If you acknowledge your condition and yield your will
to Him, if you make a total commitment (full surrender) to this
divine influence, God will fulfill His promise to you. He will supply
the fact. He will make you whole in your spirit. It is so, if you
believe it. Do not wait to feel that the miracle has happened, but
believe it, because God has promised.
WHAT TO DO EVERY
DAY
Now that you have come for divine help, do not draw back and take
yourself away from the divine influence. Every day say, “I have yielded
my will to Christ. I have surrendered my smoking problem to Him.”
Then say to Him, “Please give to me Your Spirit, grace and power to
live this new life. “It is as you continually give yourself to Him
and believe in Him that a divine miracle takes place in your life.
This is a miracle of self- control, of victory over your affection
and craving for tobacco and nicotine.
THE NEW YOU
This is a miracle which no human eye can see but which you can experience.
It is so exciting, the apostle Paul expressed it as being made into
a new creature. He said, Old things have passed away, ail things are
become new (II Corinthians 5: 17). Every thought, every word, every
action is purified and brought into subjection to the righteous will
of Christ. (See II Corinthians 10: 4,5; Ephesians 4: 28- 32; Romans
1: 16, 17.)
THE NEW RELATIONSHIP
A change is seen in our habits. We develop an emotional attachment
for the One who has saved us from these bad habits which had fettered
chains around us that we could not break. We begin to learn the meaning
of the statement in the Bible where the apostle said that we love
Him because He first loved us (I John 4: 19).
There are people
who were smokers who never realized how personal and how individual
God*s love was until they found out that God was interested in helping
them solve their problem with tobacco.
DO NOT GO BACK
TO TRYING BY YOURSELF.
There are two erroneous ideas against which we need to especially
guard ourselves after asking for divine help. The first is the philosophy
that we can trust in something that we can do in order to bring about
the change in mind and spirit and the self- control that we need.
Jesus said,
Without Me you
can do nothing (John 15: 5). Place your complete trust in Him. Do
not place any trust in what you can do. In every time of temptation,
look to Him for power to overcome and have victory. If you trust
yourself, you will fail, but Jesus never fails.
BELIEF ALONE
IS NOT ENOUGH.
The opposite and no less erroneous idea is the common belief that
if you just believe, then you do not need to do anything. The fact
is that the divine miracle takes place only when there is a union
of divine power with human effort. As long as you surrender your will
to the divine influence, He will work in you to will and to do according
to His good pleasure. And the works of obedience to the physical laws
of your body will take place in your life as you cooperate with God
by making a persistent and vital effort to live according to your
requests. The apostle said, You WORK OUT. . . with fear and trembling
. . . God . . . WORKS IN you to will and to do. . .” (Philippians
2: 12, 13). The secret then is not that God does it— you gain the
victory in the fight for self- control— but God supplies to you the
power to gain the victory which, on your own, would be impossible.
WHAT ABOUT THE
FUTURE?
The question arises, Will this miracle continue to happen? As long
as you yield your will to Christ, as long as you are choosing to fully
cooperate with Him, this divine miracle will continue to happen because
your hope is not in yourself but in Him. So, you are not to look to
yourself or depend upon yourself in order to have control over your
craving to smoke or to manifest self- control in any other area of
life. You are to look to where the help is.
One of the Bible
writers expressed it like this. He said, speaking the Word of the
Lord, Look unto Me and be saved all the ends of the earth, for I
am God and there is none else (Isaiah 45: 22). If you look to Him
(in your mind), you are going to be delivered from your problems
of smoking, lack of self- control, obeying wrong impulses, and affection
for wrong past habits.
There are all
kinds of things in life to divert your attention from where the
help is, but remember, you must not allow anything to prevent you
from looking for and asking for divine help.
This divine
help is in Jesus Christ. If you commit the keeping of your mind
to Him and trust in Him, He is able to keep that which you have
committed to Him (II Timothy 1: 12). So, look to Him every time
you are faced with a temptation to smoke. Choose to follow Him in
obedience, who said, If any man will come after Me, let him deny
himself (Luke 9: 23).
Self denial
is the way to become an ex- smoker and the way to eventually gain
life*s greatest happiness and pleasures. It is a divine principle
that Jesus constantly taught by precept and example.
THE THREE PRINCIPLES
Here are three principles that you can use to keep this divine power
flowing into your life, giving you control over the craving to smoke.
First: Fix the
Bible promises to smokers in your memory. Some Bible promises for
smokers are:
Call
upon Me in the day of trouble. I will deliver you and you shall
glorify Me (Psalm 50: 15).
Call to Me
and I will answer you and show you great and mighty things that
you do not know (Jeremiah 33: 3). The Lord also will be a refuge
for the oppressed. A refuge in times of trouble. And those who
know Your name will put their trust in You; for You, Lord, have
not forsaken those who seek You (Psalm 9: 9, 10). For everyone
who asks receives, and he who seeks finds, and to him who knocks
it will be opened.... If you then, being evil, know how to give
good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in
heaven give good things to them who ask Him (Matthew 7: 8, 11)!
With men this is impossible, but with God all things are possible
(Matthew 19: 26). For with God nothing will be impossible. (Luke
1: 37). I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me
(Philippians 4: 13). And my God shall supply all your need according
to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus (Philippians 4: 19).
God stands
back of every promise He has made. Memorize them; repeat them
over and over to yourself. This is a weapon that Jesus Himself
used to overcome temptation.
Second: Do not
fail to continue asking for help. Jesus said, Men ought always to
pray and not to faint (Luke 18: 1); in other words, do not give
up. Keep asking continually. As you go about your daily activities,
let your heart and spirit be uplifted to God, asking Him for divine
help to conquer every subtle and surprising temptation to smoke.
There is no time or place where it is inappropriate to offer up
a request for divine help to assist you in conquering a temptation
to smoke.
Third: Develop
the habit of being joyful and thankful. Did you know that most people
are about as happy as they choose to be, and the Bible acknowledges
this fact. If you will make the decision to be joyful and thankful,
you will be surprised at the divine power that will come into your
life in the very act of expressing your joy. The apostle said, Rejoice
in the Lord always and again I say rejoice (Philippians 4: 4). In
other words, express your joy. h everything with prayer and supplication,
with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known unto God, and
the peace of God which passes all understanding will keep your heart
and mind through Christ Jesus (Philippians 4: 6, 7). There is the
secret, friend. Be joyful and express your joy and thankfulness
for God*s answer to your request and a divine miracle is going to
take place in your life.
You have an
imagination. In your imagination, every time you are assailed with
a temptation to smoke, even if you are depressed or discouraged
or ready to yield to despair, look to Jesus and request help. Ask
and you will receive. When a perverted craving struggles for the
mastery in your mind, look to Jesus Christ. His power is sufficient
to subdue any bad habit. Choose to turn to Him. Lay hold of the
hope that is set before you. He has strength for your weakness,
and He is ready and willing right now to lead you step by step to
perfect self- control, permanent freedom from the slavery of smoking.
Never fear that He is far away because He is always near (Acts 17:
27), and He is interested in having communion (fellowship) with
you (Revelation 3: 19- 22). He is ready right now to work in your
behalf and to impart to you power to subdue every craving to smoke.
He does not do this without your consent. You are free to choose
what power you want to rule over you. Nobody has fallen so many
times or is such a slave to tobacco that they may not find deliverance
through divine power (Hebrews 7: 25).
WHAT HUMAN EFFORT
DO YOU NEED TO MAKE?
God expects you to live in harmony with the physical laws which He
has created within your body. The particular physical laws which you
need to pay special attention to when you begin to resist the craving
to smoke are listed below.
1. Eat mainly
fresh fruit and some fruit juice the first day.
As soon as you
quit smoking, your body starts trying to rid itself of nicotine
and all of the other poisons from tobacco that have been accumulating.
You can assist your body in this effort by adopting a cleansing
type of diet. If you are engaged in hard, manual labor and need
a more liberal diet, a suggested first day diet would be as follows:
Breakfast
1- 2 slices
of whole wheat or whole grain toast 1 banana 1 orange or apple 1
bowl of cooked cereal or cold cereal with low sugar content, with
milk or milk substitute and fruit sauce, if desired 1 glass of apricot
nectar, grape juice or orange juice a few nuts, such as almonds,
pecans, walnuts, filberts or brazil nuts— raw nuts are best, dry
roasted next best, roasted in oil should be avoided, if possible.
Lunch
1 baked potato
with gravy or other topping 1 bowl of tossed, green, garden salad
1 serving of cooked greens— broccoli, spinach, turnip greens, mustard
greens, kale, collards or Swiss chard— if none of the above are
available, green vegetables would be second best, such as: green
beans, okra, cabbage or brussels sprouts 1- 2 slices of bread, whole
wheat or whole grain 1 serving of high protein food— Any kind of
legume— cooked, dried beans, peas, lentils or garbanzos— is excellent.
Lima beans are fine. Peanut butter sandwiches can do in a pinch.
a few nuts (Nuts also provide protein.) 1 glass of milk or milk-
substitute, optional
Supper
Any kind of
fresh fruit as desired any kind of fruit juice without added sugar—
Use juices in moderation that are high in sugar content, such as
grape juice and pineapple juice. crackers, optional
The above menu
is only for those who engage in hard manual labor. Others are advised
to eat mainly fresh fruit and fruit juice the first day. If you
want to be successful right from the start, you are advised to not
eat or drink any type of food or beverage not listed.
2. Drink a minimum
of six glasses of water per day.
This is in addition
to whatever fruit juice, milk or vegetable juice you drink during
the day. If you do not like the taste of your water and do not have
access to purified water, you may put a small amount of lemon juice
in the water. This is also advisable if you have weak digestion
or if your stomach rebels at the thought of plain water.
The way to get
enough water is as follows: Drink at least one eight- ounce glass
of water during the first thirty minutes upon arising in the morning.
Do not drink anything for one to two hours after breakfast. During
the late morning, drink a minimum of two eight- ounce glasses of
water. Do not drink anything for one to two hours after lunch. During
the later afternoon, drink at least two glasses of water. Either
before supper or just before going to bed, drink one more glass
of water.
You will have
more energy as a result of drinking more water and your body will
be assisted in ridding itself of the poisons that have accumulated
from the use of tobacco.
3. Practice
deep breathing at least three times per day.
First of all,
stand up and be sure that nothing is tight or restricting around
your waist. Loose fitting clothing is absolutely essential to proper
breathing. Through either your nose or your mouth, inhale the largest
amount of air possible. Your tummy should go out both in front and
on the sides. After you inhale as much as you can force yourself
to, then inhale just a little bit more until you are feeling some
discomfort.
Hold the air
for a moment and then breathe out rapidly through your mouth. While
breathing out, bend over and place your palms flat against your
ribs, or abdomen, and push in. If you cough at the end of this breathing
out, you will get more air out of your lungs, which is what you
want. Repeat this exercise two more times. Repeat the entire procedure
at least three times per day.
Note: If you
are a jogger, a bicyclist or a long distance swimmer, you may eliminate
this activity on any day that you work out.
4. Get plenty
of rest the first few days.
Your body will
exert tremendous effort during the next few days to purify itself,
so you will need adequate rest and sleep.
5. A tepid bath
or shower is recommended every day. A tepid bath is one that is
not very hot and not cold, just lukewarm. A lukewarm soak before
bedtime for the first few days helps some people go to sleep.
6. Avoid all
alcoholic beverages.
The cerebrum
or forebrain is the first part of the brain to be affected by alcohol,
and even a small amount of alcohol results in a decrease in judgment
and the ability to exercise the will. Alcohol will sabotage your
efforts to be free from tobacco. You cannot expect God to help you
quit smoking if you use alcoholic beverages because He has forbidden
their use. (See Proverbs 23: 29- 35; 20: 1; I Corinthians 6: 9,
10.)
7. Avoid all
compromise.
If you decide
to taper off from cigarettes or other forms of tobacco, you will
surely fail. You cannot be successful unless you quit totally and
entirely.
8. What to do
if you fall.
A righteous
man may fall seven times and rise again (Proverbs 24: 16). If you
fall, confess your fall to God (I John 1: 9; Proverbs 28: 13). He
has promised to forgive you and help you to finally succeed. Read
the first part of this booklet over again and go through all of
the steps faithfully. Start over immediately to be free from tobacco,
and do not allow anyone to discourage you.
In the Revolutionary
War, America lost battle after battle but finally won the war. If
you should stumble, get up immediately and start again. God will
not forsake you and will give you a permanent victory over tobacco
if you do not give up because of a temporary failure. Pray most
earnestly. Say like Jacob, ‘I will not let You go unless You bless
me’ (Genesis 32: 26). If you keep going through the steps listed
in the beginning of the booklet and keep asking, you will be given
power to have permanent victory. The reason that some people stumble
while quitting smoking will be explained later.
SPECIAL INSTRUCTIONS
1. How to deal with headache.
First and most
important of all, pray whenever you have a headache. Say,
“Father in heaven,
You have promised to keep me in perfect peace (Isaiah 26: 3) {f
I trust in You. I have chosen to trust in You so I ask that You
will give me peace of mind and spirit and impart to me that rest
(Matthew 11: 28- 30) that You have promised, for I pray in Jesus*
name, Amen.”
Second, drink
a glass of water. Extra water is helpful for headaches. Third, practice
the deep- breathing exercises.
Fourth, if practical,
you may go for a walk. Your arms and legs should be well protected
if the weather is cool. An outdoor walk is the best.
Fifth, try to
practice a strict, regular schedule— a set time for eating meals,
a set time for going to bed, etc. Regular habits will help you to
get adequate sleep. Headaches are often caused by lack of sleep.
Sixth, do not
eat anything between meals. Do not have meals closer than five hours
apart. Avoid overeating, and do not eat many varieties of food at
the same meal. Avoid any practice which has caused you to have indigestion.
Headaches can be precipitated by indigestion.
Seventh, headaches
can be caused by improper clothing, either too much clothing in
a hot room or climate or improper distribution of clothing, day
or night, so that the extremities (arms and legs) are inadequately
clothed while the trunk of the body is warmly covered. Chilling
of the neck and shoulders can cause a headache. Tight restrictive
clothing either at the neck or at the waist or other part of the
trunk of the body can cause a headache by imbalancing the circulation.
Eighth, a hot
foot bath with a cold cloth on the forehead, or even an ice bag
placed at the top of the back of the neck against the skull, is
sometimes necessary. The footbath can be 103- 106 degrees Fahrenheit.
The washcloth on the forehead should be kept cool by frequent rinsing
in cold water. A tepid bath (94- 97 degrees Fahrenheit) for one-
half to three- quarters of an hour sometimes relieves headache.
2. Before you
get up in the morning
Always pray
before you say or do anything in the morning. The first thing in
the morning, you might be severely tempted to have a cigarette.
Before you get out of bed, talk to God about the upcoming day.
You might say
something like this, “Father in heaven, I choose to consecrate myself
to You and to belong totally to You today. On this condition, You
have promised to give to me the fullness of Your blessing, to abide
in me by Your Spirit and to be my strength and constant Helper.
I claim these wonderful promises and claim a pure life free from
the defilement of tobacco, in Jesus*name, Amen. “( This prayer is
based on Numbers 6: 24- 26; John 14: 1- 17; 15: 1- 14; Hebrews 13:
5, 6.)
3. Use your
leisure time wisely.
After supper,
do not sit down and relax in an easy chair for the first few days
because this will be one of the more dangerous times of the day
when you will be tempted to smoke. Engage in an active or absorbing
hobby, go for a walk or find something that will keep you busy until
bedtime. Doing nothing will sabotage your efforts. Doing nothing
can have a devastating effect on your will, so keep busy, except
for time for sleeping the first few days. It will be advantageous
for you to get a thirty minute walk or thirty minutes of working
in the garden, etc., every day. Aerobic exercise will help you to
always have a positive mental attitude.
The rest of
this booklet will give you more help. If you are having any trouble,
you may go over and over the first part of this booklet. Many people
must go over and over the principles before they become a part of
their character. Until your character is changed, your life free
from tobacco is not yet permanent.
THIS IS ALL
THAT YOU NEED TO KNOW TO GET STARTED.
HOW TO GET ANSWERS
TO YOUR PRAYERS
The components of successful prayer are cited below. These concepts
are from the Bible, but they are also found in a nineteenth century
book called Steps to Christ.
Prayer is talking
to God concerning our actual life— it is a conversation with Him.
It is talking to Him in the same manner as we would talk with any
friend.
Jesus taught
His disciples to (1) present their daily needs before God and (2)
cast all of their cares upon Him. He gave them the assurance that
their petitions would be heard.
God*s heart
of love yearns toward the children of men. He is ready to give them
more than they can ask or think, but these divine gifts are only
for those who ask and put their trust in Him.
Prayer should
not consist altogether in asking and receiving. We are to praise
God for His goodness, and for His wonderful works to the children
of men (Psalm 107: 8).
To obtain answers
to our prayers, the Bible presents the following prerequisites:
1. We must feel
our need, Isaiah 44: 3. 2. We must not cling to any known wrong,
Psalm 66: 18. 3. We must choose to exercise trust in God, Hebrews
11: 6. 4. We must choose to exercise a spirit of love and forgiveness,
Matthew 6: 12.
5. We must persevere
in prayer, Romans 12: 12; Colossians 4: 2; I Peter 4: 7. 6. We must
take every opportunity to pray: in the family circle, in secret,
with others and as we go about our work or daily activities. There
is no time or place in which it is inappropriate to offer up a petition
to God, Luke 18: 1.
7. Christ*s
example is that we are to blend prayer and works— we are to pray
even in the midst of our work, but we are not to isolate ourselves
away from others and retire from the world in order to pray. If
we only pray and do not work, soon we will cease to pray or our
prayers will become a formal routine.
So, take to
God everything that perplexes your mind. Nothing that in any way
concerns your peace is too small for Him to notice. There is no
perplexity concerning your smoking problem that is too difficult
for Him to understand. There is no calamity that can happen to you
or anxiety that can harass you to which He is unobservant or in
which He does not take an interest.
So ask. Ask
when you are driving your car and you are being tempted to smoke.
Ask when you
are on the job. Ask when you are talking with someone and you are
tempted to smoke. Ask when someone offers you a cigarette and you
do not know how to resist. You can always make a request for help
in your mind, and God will hear. He says that He sees every thought
that you think (Psalm 139: 2). Ask, Jesus said, and it will by given
to you. Seek, and you shall find. Knock, and it will opened unto
you. Everyone who asks receives, the one who seeks finds and to
the one who knocks it will be opened (Matthew 7: 7, 8). Are you
knocking on God*s door? Are you seeking for His help? If you are,
He has promised to hear your request and answer you. God stands
behind every promise He has made.
MORE HUMAN EFFORTS
YOU CAN MAKE
Success is the result of divine power and human effort. Your utmost
human effort is necessary. If you stop making a consistent effort,
then God must stop providing miraculous power to help you because
He never works out of harmony with your own will— that would restrict
your freedom, which God will not do. Here are more things to do to
have permanent success.
1. Avoid all
coffee and caffeine.
Caffeine is
a chemical stimulant that can initiate a craving for a cigarette.
Very few people will be able to permanently quit smoking and still
keep on drinking coffee. Caffeine is a drug and is potentially dangerous
like any other drug. For many smokers, coffee seems to automatically
signal for a cigarette afterward.
Caffeine and
nicotine are chemically related drugs and the use of one can cause
a craving for the other. The only sure way to quit smoking is to
quit drinking coffee.
Caffeine is
much more dangerous than usually described in the public press.
As little as two cups of coffee per day can retard bone growth in
the fetus and significantly decrease placental blood flow. The use
of caffeine can result in calcium loss and gradual thinning of the
bones. It can also result in a marked decrease in iron absorption,
which could lead to anemia.
In addition
to this, high dosages of caffeine can result in nervousness, irritability,
restlessness, anxiety, insomnia and headaches. Do you need all of
this extra trouble when you are quitting the use of tobacco?
Furthermore,
since caffeine is a drug that can harm your body, can you with a
clear conscience ask God to provide miraculous power so that you
can be free from tobacco while you are needlessly using a drug that
can seriously harm your body? Can you expect Him to restore your
body if you are deliberately doing something that could destroy
it?
2. Use natural,
harmless stimulants.
One of the most
powerful natural stimulants is a cold mitten friction. In the morning,
fill the sink with cool or cold water. Dip a washcloth (or terry
cloth mitt if you have one) into the water and wring it out dry.
Then rub one arm at a time until the arm is pink.
The second morning
you can fill the sink with colder water until eventually you may
put ice cubes in the water, if you desire. The second or third morning
you may want to rub your chest, as well as your arms, until it is
pink. The morning after that you may rub your arms, your chest and
your back until they are all pink. Then you may rub both of your
arms and the entire trunk of your body. Finally, in about a week
or ten days, you will be able to rub your arms, your chest, your
upper and lower back, your abdomen and your legs until they are
all pink.
After a cold
mitten friction, you will be awake without having to use coffee,
and you will feel better and have no harmful side effects. It will
give you a lift without a later letdown. It will also increase your
resistance to colds and other upper respiratory infections.
You will need
to get up a few minutes earlier in the morning to do this, but it
will be worth it for the rest of the day.
3. Your diet
After the first
day, you may liberalize your diet, but if you make fresh fruit and
vegetables the major part of your diet, you will have better health
and you will probably feel better during the time your body is flushing
the poisons from tobacco out of it. A good plan is to have a generous
amount of fresh fruit for breakfast with a whole- grain cereal or
other whole- grain food, milk or milk substitute, whole- grain toast,
fruit sauce and a few nuts. Lunch would then include a generous
amount of raw and cooked vegetables and should include one dark
green or orange vegetable daily with whole- grain bread and a protein
food. Potatoes are an excellent staple vegetable and when eaten
with another cooked vegetable, a salad and a legume or casserole,
provide satiety and enduring energy. The best protein foods were
listed earlier. The third meal, if eaten, should be light, preferably
fresh fruit only, but crackers and fruit juice with the fruit is
all right if you are very hungry.
HOW DOES GOD
EFFECT BEHAVIOR CHANGE?
Behavior change takes place when there is a combination of supreme
human effort and divine power working in a person*s life. Consistent
human effort never occurs without motivation. Where and how does lasting,
powerful motivation come into a persons life? How does this take place?
Jesus said, If you can believe, all things are possible to the one
who believes (Mark 9: 23).
Trust or belief
in God comes the same way as you learn to trust or believe in anyone
else. We learn to trust others as a result of our acquaintance or
experience with them. We learn to trust God as a result of our acquaintance
or experience with Him. How do we become acquainted with God? We
become acquainted with Him in the same way that we become acquainted
with anybody else. We talk to Him, and He talks to us.
We have already
talked about asking Him for help continually and praising Him for
answering our requests. Some changes take place instantly; some
changes take place over a period of time. Just because you do not
feel any different right this moment, this does not mean that a
change is not really happening.
When we become
acquainted with God, we learn to believe or trust in Him to give
us control over our past smoking habit or any other unhealthful
craving. The Scripture says, We love Him because He first loved
us (I John 4: 19).
EXPERIENCING
LOVE
When Jesus was here, the disciples experienced His love by being with
Him. John says, We heard Him, we saw Him with our eyes, we gazed upon
Him, our hands handled Him (I John 1: 1). Concerning what they saw,
he said, That which we have seen and heard we declare also to you
so that you might have fellowship (verse 3).
If we experience
Jesus' love now, it must be by reading these reports (the four Gospels:
Matthew, Mark, Luke and John) of what those disciples saw, heard
and handled. If we do this, the result will be a fellowship with
the Father and the Son, a precious experience in receiving divine
love. Love brings joy and control into our lives.
When a man and
woman are first in love, they spend as much time as possible with
each other, and that love grows and becomes a powerful force in
their lives.
Divine love
is the most powerful motivating force for smoking cessation there
is. We must spend as much time as possible with the source of that
love so that we will receive it. Otherwise we will not have this
most powerful motivating force in our lives which will bring about
permanent freedom from tobacco. We love because He first loved us
(I John 4: 19). Schedule at least fifteen minutes per day to read
from one of the Gospels. A good place to start is the Sermon on
the Mount found in Matthew 5- 7. You will find a great deal of help
to give you complete freedom over smoking in this sermon that Jesus
gave.
WILL MY LIFESTYLE
CHANGES BE PERMANENT?
Love is the most powerful motivating force there is for smoking cessation.
When we love God and realize that He will give us any help necessary
for us to achieve victory over our bondage to tobacco, lasting changes
will take place. The result will be permanent cessation of smoking.
SUMMARY OF PRINCIPLES
IN SIMPLE STEPS
1. We become
acquainted with God in the same way that we become acquainted with
anyone else— by talking to Him and listening to Him talk to us (I
John 1: 1- 3; Job 22: 2 1). We talk to Him when we pray. He talks
to us through His Word, the Bible.
2. As we become
acquainted with God, we experience His love for us (Jeremiah 31:
3).
3. If we become
acquainted with God, the natural result is that we will love Him
(I John 4: 19).
4. Divine love
is the most powerful motivating force there is to make and keep
you free from the bondage of tobacco. It is a divine power that
enables a person to develop self- control( l Corinthians 13: 7,8;
John 14: 23).
5. As our love
relationship with God develops, we have more desire to become all
that we can become with His divine power operating in our lives.
6. His love
to us and our responding love to Him empowers us to fulfill the
desire to be free from tobacco.
OBTAINING PERMANENT
RESULTS
Divine love is more powerful than any enslaving habit to tobacco you
have. It is the only thing that will produce permanent results. Any
other motivation will eventually wear off and your bad habits and
bondage to depravity of one kind or another will return, but love
never fails (I Corinthians 13: 8).
The first requirement
for developing a love relationship with God is to spend time with
Him— talk to Him. The second requirement is to listen to God talk
to you.
HOW GOD TALKS
TO YOU THROUGH HIS BOOK
God has big plans for you, bigger plans than you have for yourself.
God created man to be in charge, to have dominion over the whole world,
not to be a slave but to be a ruler. These plans can never be fulfilled
unless you are in control of your own life. How does God plan to bring
this about? He brings it about through His Word. Jesus said, I am
the vine, you are the branches. He who remains in Me and I in Him,
the same brings forth much fruit for without Me, you can do nothing
(John 15: 5).
Because of the
effect of heredity, of bad habits, of wrong lifestyle and of bad
choices, we do not have the ability of ourselves to exercise self-
control. We cannot control our minds or our bodies in our own strength.
Jesus said, If a man does not remain in Me, he is cast forth as
a branch and is withered, and men gather them and cast them into
the fire and they are burned (John 15: 6). This is an apt illustration
of the life that is ruined by bad habits. Jesus continued to say,
If you remain in Me and My words remain in you, you shall ask what
you wish and it shall be done to you (John 15: 7). So, knowing the
promises in the Word is very important if we want to obtain answers
to our requests.
GOD'S PROMISES
The promises in God*s Word show us what to pray for and what to ask
for. We know that if we ask for something that is promised in His
Word, our request will be fulfilled (I John 5: 14).
Let us look
now at a few of the Bible promises especially applicable to smokers.
The apostle Paul says, Your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit
(I Corinthians 6: 19). You are bought with a price, therefore glorify
God in your body (I Corinthians 6: 20). It is God*s will for you
to live in harmony with the physical laws of your body, in fact,
the apostle says, If anyone destroys the temple of God, Him will
God destroy, for the temple of God is holy which temple you are
(I Corinthians 3: 17).
So, you know
that it is not God*s will for you to destroy your body by unhealthful
habits, such as smoking. God has promised to deliver you from every
desire contrary to His will if you are willing. But I say, Walk
in the Spirit and you will not fulfill the lust [craving] of the
flesh (Galatians 5: 16).
If you choose
to follow the instruction of the Holy Spirit given in God*s Word
this is a promise that you will have victory over every unhealthful
craving and temptation. Through whom are given to us exceeding great
and precious promises that through these you might be partakers
of the divine nature having escaped from the corruption which is
in the world through lust. (II Peter 1: 4). It is by memorizing,
quoting and claiming the promises in God*s Word in every time of
temptation that victory is gained. Jesus Himself used this spiritual
weapon. (See Matthew 4: 1- 11.)
GOD UNDERSTANDS
YOUR TEMPTATIONS
Somebody might say, “Well, God doesn't understand howl am tempted.”
But God does understand how you are tempted; in fact, the apostle
Paul says in Hebrews 4: 14, 15, We have a great High Priest who is
passed into the heavens, Jesus the Son of God. We do not have a high
priest which cannot not be touched with the feeling of our maladies,
but He was in all points tempted like as we are yet without sin.
Jesus knows
how you feel; He knows how you have been tempted. He knows how you
are tempted because He was tempted in all points like as you are.
Because He was tempted in all points like as you are, He knows how
to deliver you from temptation. Look at the promise that follows
in Hebrews 4: 16, Let us therefore come boldly before the throne
of grace that we may obtain mercy and grace to help in time of need.
Does it seem
impossible to obtain freedom from the bondage of tobacco? Does it
seem impossible to keep from lighting up? The apostle said, Let
us come boldly before the throne of grace that we may obtain mercy
and grace to help in time of need (Hebrews 4: 16). In other words,
every time you have a temptation that seems irresistible, you need
to ask for divine help, and the promise is that you are going to
find mercy and grace to help in time of need (Hebrews 4: 16).
YOU CAN BE FREE
FROM TOBACCO.
Did you know that Jesus Himself has promised to set you free from
every sinful or unhealthful habit? This is one of the most wonderful
promises in all of the Bible. You can claim it every time you are
assailed by temptstion to smoke.
This promise
is found in John 8: 32- 36: And you shall know the truth and the
truth shall make you free. They gave answer to Him, We are Abraham's
seed and we have never been enslaved ever. How do you say that you
shall become free? Jesus answered them, Most assuredly I say to
you, that every one who commits sin is the slave of sin and the
slave does not remain in the house forever, but the Son remains
forever. If, therefore, the Son shall set you free, you shall be
free indeed.
Sin is simply
doing something that is unlawful (I John 3: 4). The sixth commandment
says, You shall not kill. This includes more than pointing a gun
at yourself or somebody else. It includes slow suicide. This would
include smoking because habitual smokers have a higher death rate
than they otherwise would.
JESUS' PROMISE
TO YOU
Jesus has promised to set you free from all bondage. He has promised
to deliver you from every kind of slavery. He has promised to deliver
you, set you free, from every wrong habit, every unhealthful habit.
This is a promise that you can claim every time you are tempted, every
time it seems impossible not to yield to the temptation to smoke.
DO NOT SABOTAGE
YOUR WILL
The will is the governing power in the nature of man. It is God*s
design that your body be in absolute subjection to your will at all
times. Only then are you truly free. (See 1 Corinthians 9: 24- 27.)
It is necessary
for you to surrender your will to God in order to be delivered from
the bondage which has kept you a slave in dire captivity to tobacco.
(See Romans 7: 18- 8: 17.) As long as your will is surrendered to
God, He will work through your conscience and reason to control
it. God does not usurp your own mental powers, but as long as you
are surrendered to Him, He works through them to elevate, refine,
ennoble and bring you in every way to a condition where you might
enjoy lasting pleasure and happiness with no hang- over, smoker*s
cough or other sorrow connected with it.
But you have
a part to act in order to keep your will from again becoming a slave
to your body or the lower powers of the mind, such as the emotions.
(Emotions should always be the servant of the will; the will or
power of choice should never be under the control of any part of
the body.)
There are certain
physical and mental habits which can weaken the will and again bring
it into slavery. If you deliberately weaken your will, God will
not work a miracle to keep you free— by your actions you are declaring
to the whole universe that you have not chosen to be free, and God*s
power is not exercised contrary to your own choice. The practices
which weaken the will are listed below. If you are brought into
difficulty through no choice of your own like Daniel was when taken
a captive to Babylon, God will protect you, but God*s power is not
exercised to protect the presumptuous.
1. Overeating
The will, as
all other powers of the mind, is affected by the physical state
of the body. If you overeat, the circulation is imbalanced and you
lose your power to resist temptation. Overeating is often followed
by a sensation of drowsiness, and in this half- awake state, the
will is in no condition to bring perverted bodily cravings into
absolute subjection as is necessary to acquire freedom from the
slavery of tobacco.
If you are a
habitual overeater, you can use the same principles found in the
first part of this booklet to gain the victory over overeating.
Especially remember to ask God for victory and selfcontrol. There
are also a few physical techniques you can use to avoid overeating:
Practice regularity
in eating. Eat only at regular times and not more than three times
per day. Regular, balanced meals will help you to avoid the unhealthful
habit of snacking.
Avoid extreme-
type diets which can result in excess hunger. Any diet which is
severely restricted in fat content can result in extreme hunger.
While excess fat and fats that are solid at room temperature are
dangerous to your health, there must be a balance. Get some fat
at both breakfast and lunch. The best fat is in whole, unrefined
foods. A recommended list of foods containing large amounts of fat
follows. These foods should be used in moderation.
High fat foods
include, most nuts and many seeds, such as sunflower and sesame
seeds, avocados and olives. Refined foods containing fat, while
not totally prohibited, should be restricted. This would include
all oils and many dairy products. Milk substitutes have to be evaluated
individually. Many have a high fat content.
Use whole foods
and plant foods as much as possible. These foods have protective
factors that help you to feel satisfied on less calories and thereby
avoid overeating.
Eat slowly,
laying your fork down between bites. Swallow each mouthful before
taking another fork full of food. Chew your food slowly and thoroughly
and allow adequate time for meals. This last point is very important.
If you do not allow at least twenty to thirty minutes for your meal,
you may feel hungry even if you have had plenty to eat.
Regular exercise
has a powerful regulatory effect on the appetite. If you walk for
thirty minutes a day, you will probably feel a need for less food
than if you were totally sedentary.
2. Overwork
and lack of rest
Any habit that
results in undue fatigue will result in weakening the will. Staying
up late at night, followed by an early rise which is still not early
enough for a good breakfast, results in starting the day in a weak
condition. Lack of planning and scheduling or trying to do two day*s
work in one and the resulting lack of sleep, plus overwork, can
sabotage your will power.
3. Alcoholic
beverages or other mind altering drugs
The higher powers
of the mind are more and more anesthetized as alcohol is used. Many
people who had quit smoking have started again after drinking alcohol.
4. Tea, coffee
and other caffeine sources
Caffeine is
a stimulant to the nervous system. Continual use of caffeine has
the same effect as overwork or lack of rest— the nervous system,
as well as the rest of the body, because of unnatural stimulation,
does not recuperate adequately and becomes debilitated until the
will is overborne, and then the person has no ability to escape
unnatural cravings. Divine power is ready to deliver you from this
vicious circle, but you must do your part— decide to abstain from
all harmful substances which weaken your will, and follow your decision
with your utmost effort while calling upon God for divine power
to help you. You must work out what God works in. (Philippians 2:
12, 13).
5. Overindulgence
in sexual passions Every blessing that God has given the human family
can be abused and thereby become a curse. Sexual intimacy requires
a large amount of biological vitality, and overindulgence can have
a weakening effect. One of the worst effects is the habit that can
be formed of placing the higher powers of the mind under the control
of the sexual passions. The will should always control the passions
and never be controlled by them.
If sexual passions
control the whole being, man is then in a similar position to dumb
animals. A person who is used to being a slave to emotions and feelings
will find it impossible to become free from tobacco unless God works
a miracle in His life. The first part of this booklet outlines how
this miracle can happen.
6. Other unnatural
stimulation
Many other habits
and practices can unnaturally stimulate the body and the mind and
result in a weakened condition of the will. These include using
large amounts of certain condiments and spices. The general rule
is that if a seasoning tastes hot when actually it is cold, it might
be used as a medicine, but it is not safe to use as food. Condiments
can immediately start a strong craving for a cigarette.
The mind can
be unnaturally stimulated by watching crime, either in the news
or acted out. The mind can be unnaturally stimulated by reading
novels, various works of fiction and other exciting literature or
by watching movies. Such stimulation unbalances the circulation,
and any excess stimulation finally results in debilitation and weakening
of the will. You can keep up with what is going on in the world
and know everything you need to know without this constant stimulation
and knowledge of the details of every outrage that is committed.
Rich and heavy
foods can unnaturally stimulate the body. A high protein diet is
a stimulating diet and not the best for health. While you are still
experiencing cravings for tobacco, any unnecessary stimulation of
the body can make this craving worse, so avoid meat as much as possible
because meat not only is high in protein but contains purine and
ammonia which have stimulating qualities. Especially avoid rare
meat.
The general
rule is that any substance, when taken in far greater amount than
needed by the body, can result in stimulation or debilitation, either
of which is not helpful to having strong will power. Some other
common substances which can have stimulating qualities when taken
in very large amounts are vitamin pills, food supplements, sugar,
eggs, milk and other dairy products.
A word of caution
is in order here. If you have been using large amounts of food supplements,
it is wiser to decrease the amount taken slowly rather than all
at once because your body probably has a tolerance now to large
amounts of these vitamins or whatever supplement you have been taking.
You can experience a severe letdown in energy and a feeling of malaise
and fatigue if customary food supplements are suddenly discontinued.
This extra shock to your body is totally unnecessary while you are
acquiring permanent freedom from the slavery of tobacco, so do not
discontinue supplements all at once.
7. Doing anything
that you know is wrong
If you deliberately
do anything that you know is wrong, you will suffer a violated conscience
and an immediate weakness of will power to do what you know is right.
You will immediately lose the divine power that God has been giving
you to help you to obtain freedom from the slavery of tobacco.
If you experiment
with any instrument which is used of evil spirits, such as spiritualistic
mediums, psychics and fortune- tellers; secret associations and
seances; healers who claim to employ electricity, magnetism, or
“sympathetic remedies”; if you attempt to communicate with the dead
(See Deuteronomy 18: 10- 12; Isaiah 8: 19, 20; I Chronicles 10:
13, 14; Ecclesiastes 9: 5, 6.); if you venture into scenes of dissipation
or irreligious pleasure; if you seek the society of the sensual
person, the skeptic or the blasphemer, either in person or through
the medium of the press or theater, you will lose the miraculous
power of God in your life.
Your only sure
escape if you are in this situation is to follow the divinely appointed
steps back to freedom:
First, you must
acknowledge the wrong you have done to God and also to others if
you have injured them and ask forgiveness of all injured parties.
(See Proverbs 28: 13; I John 1: 9.) Then you must follow the steps
presented in the first part of this booklet again about how to get
started and how to get divine help to gain back your freedom and
self- control.
HOW WE ARE
TEMPTED TO SMOKE
In 1 John 2: 15- 17, the apostle says, Do not love the world, neither
the things that are in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love
of the Father is not in him because everything that is in the world,
the craving of the flesh, the craving of the eye, and the ostentatiousness
of life, is not from the Father but is out of the world. The world
passes away and the cravings of it, but the one who does the will
of God remains forever.
This is a plain
acknowledgment that our body can crave things that are not good
for us. It is also evident that we must not gratify these cravings
if we desire life. The apostle says, Do not love these things. Do
not love the world; there are only three things in the world, the
craving of the flesh, the craving of the eyes and the ostentatious-
ness of life.
WHAT DO I DO
ABOUT THESE CRAVINGS?
Now the question that comes to you and me is, If I love the world,
if I have been giving in to the craving of my flesh, if I have been
giving in to the craving of my eyes, if I have been smoking until
that craving has become almost overwhelming, what do I do about it?
How do I get over it?
The secret is
right in this passage (1 John2: 15- 17) lam not to love the world,
but I am to have a transfer of my affections so that I can do the
will of God. You see, if my whole life revolves around the craving
of my flesh and the craving of my eyes, it will never be possible
for me to obtain perfect self- control over my cravings or urge
to smoke. In order for me to gain the victory over bad physical
habits, what must happen? I must have a transfer of my affections
from these things to somebody above.
HOW OUR DESIRES
ARE MODIFIED
This happens in the following manner. We love Him because He first
loved us (1 John 4: 19). Did you know that God is never tempted to
smoke? God is love and His love is always directed outward toward
the benefit of the intelligences He has created. Our wrong habits
and cravings are the result of a perversion of His love. Instead of
our love being directed outward toward the happiness and benefit of
others, our love is directed inward to the happiness and benefit of
ourselves— to gratification of our flesh by smoking or wrong eating,
etc. Wrong habits are cultivated through this basic root principle
of self- love.
We can never
quit our wrong habits unless we learn the essence of the divine
character— that principle which seeks not its own but another*s
good. How does this happen? The process of overcoming wrong habits
is, in its most simple explanation, a process of learning to love
the way God loves.
HOW DO WE LEARN
THIS VITAL PRINCIPLE?
The problem is, how do we learn to love when we are so used to loving
that craving of our flesh, that craving of our eyes, our oppressive
desire to smoke and other gratifications of these desires of our flesh
and our eyes? How does this process of learning to love the way God
loves happen in us?
Before we will
have any love to give to anybody else, we must first experience
His love to us. When Jesus was here, His disciples experienced His
love by spending time with Him. John says, We heard Him, we saw
Him with our eyes, we gazed upon Him, our hands handled Him (I John
1: 1). Concerning what they saw, he said, That which we have seen
and heard, we announce also to you that you might have fellowship
with us (1 John 1: 3).
HOW DO WE SPEND
TIME WITH HIM?
If we are to have fellowship with Jesus now, it will have to be by
reading the reports about what these disciples saw, heard and handled.
If we do this the result will be a fellowship, a close interpersonal
relationship with the Father and the Son, a precious experience of
receiving divine love. This experience will give power to our decisions
to be free from tobacco and to overcome our bad habits. We will have
a transfer of our affections from the satisfaction of the cravings
of this world to the satisfaction of fellowship with the Father and
the Son. Then, the apostle says, our joy is going to be full (1 John
1: 4).
HOW DO WE FALL
IN LOVE?
When a man and woman are first in love, they spend as much time as
possible with each other, and that love grows and becomes a powerful
force in their lives. Divine love is the most powerful force there
is to overcome the craving to smoke. It is the most powerful force
there is, but we need to spend as much time as possible with the source
of that love so that we will receive it. We will never be filled with
that love with just a few minutes a day thinking about Him while we
spend the rest of the day thinking about the cravings of our flesh
or booking at secular pictures and advertising with craving in our
eyes.
We must experience
His love the same way that the first disciples experienced it. We
must hear His voice speaking to us. We must see Him in our imagination.
We must gaze upon Him. As we work in this world, our hands must
touch Him. We must have the same intimate spiritual fellowship with
the Father and the Son that they had. People who love each other
always find time to be together.
THE RESULTS
OF SPENDING TIME WITH HIM
The result, friends, of that relationship in your life will be that
you will receive divine power to overcome the craving to smoke. Spend
time with Jesus by studying His life every day, and the result will
be that a new love will take possession of your mind. Your affections
will be imperceptibly changed from love of the world with its craving
of the flesh and craving of the eyes to the love of the Father, an
intimate love relationship with the One who has all power and who
will give you His power to overcome. He will give you power to carry
out your own best decisions.
THE HUMAN ESSENTIAL
FOR SMOKING CESSATION
Jesus talked about the human essential in the Sermon on the Mount.
He said, Not everyone who says to Me, Lord, Lord is going to enter
into the kingdom of heaven, hut the one who does the will of My Father
who is in heaven (Matthew 7: 2 1). It is not what we say, it is not
what we profess, it is what we do that counts. And why do you call
Me, Lord, Lord, and you do not do what I say (Luke 6: 46)?
WHEN WE BECOME
SUCCESSFUL
We become successful in becoming free from tobacco when (1) we ask
for help, (2) depend upon God to give us divine help and then, in
obedience to our request and trust in Him, (3) we take action— we
act on our trust or our belief in Him.
It is always
true that we will act out all of the trust or faith in God that
we have, and it is when we show by our actions that we believe that
God is going to help us, that a miracle begins to take place in
our lives.
ON THE BORDERS
OF THE PROMISED LAND
There was a time in ancient history when the children of Israel, the
descendants of Abraham, the spiritual forefathers of the faithful
of later ages, marched out of Egypt and went across a terrible wilderness
to inherit the promised land. The time came when they were encamped
on the borders of the promised land.
Right now, if
you have been following the instructions in this booklet, you are
encamped on the borders of your promised land— the new you, the
new self- controlled you, the you who has control over your lifestyle
and is free at last from all enslaving habits.
But when the
children of Israel were encamped on the borders of the promised
land, it was not enough for them to have a knowledge of Canaan.
It was not enough for them to sing songs about Canaan. This would
not bring them into possession of all those wonderful vineyards
and olive groves in that wonderful country. They could make it theirs
in truth only by occupation. They had to go across the Jordan and
actually occupy the land. They had to do something. They had to
comply with the conditions. They had to exercise faith in God and
take His promises to themselves while they obeyed His instruction.
They had to have an active experience.
IMPORTANCE OF
TAKING ACTION
Becoming free from tobacco consists in doing something, doing something
active about the problem. Whether or not we will be successful depends
not just on whether or not we ask for help, whether or not we believe
or whether or not we make a profession of believing. Whether or not
we are successful will be made manifest by whether or not we actually
do or act in harmony with our requests. We must do and not say only,
because it is only through action that new habits are built.
HOW CHARACTER
IS BUILT
These new habits develop into a new character. Actions become habits
and habits become character— you. You started reading this booklet
with many wrong habits in your possession as a part of your character.
You have been making decisions based on the information presented
about changing your character.
We cannot do
this unless God supplies the power. That is why this must be a spiritual
experience, an experience of asking Him for help and getting to
know Him. Although God will supply the power, it is up to you and
me to use the power. We cannot just sit in our tents and pray and
study. We must get up and take action— walk into the promised land.
Taking proper
action will result in the development of good habits which will
result in the development of a different character, a new character,
a new, pure, tobacco- free you. You have had a misshapen character
because of smoking. Our goal is to help you to reshape your character
using divine power that is most certainly available to you. It is
impossible for anyone to do this perfectly by themselves. That is
why we have talked about the necessity of receiving divine help.
YOU ARE THE
ARBITER OF YOUR DESTINY
Remember,
God will supply the power, the help. It is up to you and me to take
hold of that power and do something with it. No matter how much power
God supplies to you, He leaves it up to you to take that power and
work out what He works in. Every day you are building the new you.
Your character depends on the actions that you take. Your actions
result in habits, and the habits result in character. OBTAINING
LASTING RESULTS
There is a true foundation to build your character upon— a living
Stone— and if you build upon that true foundation, God*s life will
be imparted to you as you build upon Him (1 Peter 2: 4- 9). If the
building that you are building is on another foundation, someday it
is going to fall. Some people build their character (their attempt
to become free from the slavery of tobacco and other bad habits) upon
a foundation of human ideas, upon human philosophy and opinions, or
upon protocols of some man*s invention.
The person who
does this is building a structure of character upon shifting sand.
Someday, sometime the fierce tempests of temptation will sweep away
this sandy foundation and leave that person*s house of character
a wreck, and they will say, “I stopped smoking once. I was free
from tobacco once, and I thought I could handle it myself But when
the stress of _________ happened, I started again.”
If you are resting
your hope of having perfect self- control upon yourself, you are
building on shifting sand. It is not too late, friend, to escape
ruin. Before the temptations of perverted carnal desires break over
you, flee to the sure foundation, the tried and living Stone.
Listen, I lay
in Zion for a foundation a stone, a tried stone, a precious cornerstone,
and the one who believes will not be in a hurry, . . . Look unto
Me and be ye saved, all the ends of the earth! For I am God, and
there is none else.... Do not be afraid for I am with you; do not
be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, I will help
you, I will uphold you by the right hand of My righteousness (Isaiah
28: 16; 45: 22; 41: 10).
The help is
available. The question is, What are you doing with it? What character
will you build with it? Your actions develop your habits, and your
habits develop your character, the new, pure, tobacco- free you.
Whoever hears these words of Mine and does them, I will liken him
to a wise man who built his house upon the rock (Matthew 7: 24).
TODAY IS THE
DAY FOR A MIRACLE IN YOUR LIFE
There is recorded in the Scripture a time when the apostle Paul spoke
the good news to a Roman governor. The Scripture says there were three
things that Paul talked to this Roman governor about. He talked to
him about right— about doing that which is right. He talked to him
about self- control. He also talked to him about having to give an
account in the future for this life that we live here.
THE DANGER OF
PROCRASTINATION
As Paul did this, the Scripture says that this Roman governor, by
the name of Felix, trembled and he gave this answer, Go your way for
this time. When I have a convenient season, I will call for you (Acts
24: 25).
This is a classic
reply, a classic response. Go your way right now; when I have a
convenient season, I will call for you. I am going to do something
about it. Have you ever heard someone say that? Today lam going
to smoke just a little bit. Tonight I have to go to a party, but
tomorrow I am going to develop self- control; tomorrow I will become
free of the slavery of tobacco. Today, during the holidays, I need
to enjoy myself, but lam going to do something about my smoking
later. I am going to change my lifestyle sometime in the future.
Tomorrow I am going to do it. Today I have other things to do.
THERE WILL NEVER
BE AN EASIER TIME
The news is, friend, that today is the day for you to make the changes
that you want to make in your life. It will never be easier tomorrow
than it is today. It is easier today than it ever will be again, on
the basis of what you have just read. The actions that you commit
today develop habits, and these habits develop character. Your character
is what you really are. If you keep on indulging yourself, if you
keep on smoking, more and stronger, wrong habits will be formed. The
result will be a deterioration of character, a depraved character.
So, tomorrow it will be harder for you to make the changes you want
to make than it is today. Although nothing is impossible with divine
grace, it will be more difficult. So, today is the day for you to
make the changes that you want to make in life.
TODAY IS THE
TIME
We read in the Bible about a woman that was brought to Jesus from
the very act of adultery. And they came to Jesus and they said, Moses
said that such should be stoned, but what do you say? And this they
said that they might have something to accuse Him (John 8: 5, 6) either
to the people or to the Romans. Jesus arranged affairs in this incident
so that all of the people who brought the woman to Him left, being
accused by their own conscience of their own sins, and the woman was
left alone with Jesus. When that happened, it says that, Jesus lifted
Himself up and saw none but the woman, and said to her, Woman, where
are those your accusers? Has no man condemned you? She said, No man,
Lord. Jesus said to her, Neither do I condemn you. Go and sin no more
(John 8: 10, 11).
When Jesus talked
to that woman, He said, in effect, today is the day for you to make
a change in your life. Jesus never told anybody that tomorrow will
be all right; you can go ahead and indulge yourself today. You can
go ahead and practice your unhealthful habits today and change tomorrow.
Jesus never told anyone that. Jesus told people, today is the day
to make a change in your life. Today is the day that God is willing
to work a divine miracle in your life. Today is the day. He said
to that woman, Go and sin no more (John 8: 11).
Do you realize
what that almost certainly meant? That meant that the woman had
to go and get a different kind of job. That meant that she was out
of a job because she was involved in prostitution to make a living.
But when Jesus talked to her, He did not say, “Let*s work on this
and see if you can make some arrangements to get another kind of
job.” He did not say anything like that; He said, “Today is the
day, tight now. Don*t live like that any longer. Today is the day;
right now is the time to change. Right now is the time to have new
life. Friend, that was the beginning of new life for that woman,
that day.
Now, which kind
of person are you? Are you like that Roman ruler who said, “Go for
right now; I want to enjoy my wrong indulgences a little more, so
I want to wait for a more convenient time. There are so many wrong
habits in my life, and it will be inconvenient for me socially and
professionally to change right now. I am going to wait for a more
convenient time.” The more convenient time does not come.
Or are you going
to be like that woman that Jesus met? Right then, right that day,
a change was made in her life. She started to live a new life that
very day. Jesus said, Go and sin no more. Today is the day to make
a change. That was the beginning of new life for that woman. If
you are willing to make a change today, God is willing to help you
to make that change today. But God will never work a miracle in
the life of a person who says, “I want to continue in my wrong habits
for today. I want a more convenient time, and then I will make a
change. I want to taper off from my bad habits.” If you decide to
taper off from bad habits, you have decided to do some evil still,
and if God were to help you, He would be blessing you in evil- doing.
So, you cannot have any help from God until you decide to quit completely
all evil or unhealthful habits. The person who is waiting for a
more convenient time or who is trying to taper off never experiences
a miracle. They may believe, they may know, but they are waiting
for tomorrow to quit completely, and life passes by. At the end,
their character is a wreck in the annals of time and eternity.
SUMMARY
Today is the best day, the best opportunity you will ever have, to
make a change. Let us review what we have studied:
1. Ask for divine
help, knowing that God never tells a lie and that He stands back
of every promise He has made.
2. Become acquainted
with God. Talk to Him every time you are faced with a temptation
to smoke.
3. You become
acquainted with God when you listen to Him talk to you about the
big plans that He has for your life and by exposing yourself to
His Word, especially to the promises He has made in His Word to
everyone who wants complete freedom.
4. You expose
yourself to the most powerful force in the world by experiencing
the love that Jesus has for you— you experience His life by reading
about it in His Word.
5. Then you
start to act out the promise that God has made to you, depending
upon Him to work a miracle in your life.
6. When you
do these things, the miracle begins today. Do not say, “I am going
to wait for a more convenient time; I am going to wait for a better
opportunity.” Do not say that, because then the miracle will never
happen. We have no record that Felix ever had a change in his life—
the Lord never worked a miracle in His life. He went on with all
of his wrong habits, wrong actions and depraved character development.
Today can be
the day that a change occurs in your life, if you make the choice
today. Jesus said to the woman that was taken in adultery, Go and
sin no more (John 8: 11). In other words, be done with all of those
bad habits, today. If you want to live a new life, if you want to
have perfect self- control, if you want victory over the craving
to smoke or a life of idleness and inactivity, today can be the
day when you have a new life. Jesus worked miracles for those who
were willing to exercise trust during the present— today.
WALKING ON WATER
There is a story in the Bible about a man who walked on water with
the Lord.. This story happened between three and six o*clock in the
morning. The disciples of Jesus were on a boat, alone, in the middle
of the Sea of Galilee. A fearful storm had arisen on the sea. During
this storm, Jesus came to the disciples walking upon the sea— Jesus
was walking on water.
At first when
the disciples saw a person walking on the water, they were afraid,
but then Jesus said to them, Be of good courage, it is L Do not
he afraid (Matthew 14: 27). The Scripture says that Peter answered
Him and said, Lord, if it is You, command me to come to You on the
water. And He said, Come. And coming down out of the ship, Peter
walked upon the water to come to Jesus, but looking on the wind
boisterous, he was terrified and beginning to sink, he cried saying,
Lord, save me. And Jesus stretched forth His hand and took him,
and said to him, Oh, you of little faith. Why did you doubt? (Matthew
14: 28- 31).
PERMANENT SUCCESS
AND TEMPORARY FAILURE
We are now going to address the subjects, “Will you be free of tobacco
permanently?” and “How to deal with temporary failure.” From the human
point of view, walking on water is impossible. From the human point
of view, being permanently free from tobacco is impossible for many.
But there is
Somebody who can help you to walk on water. Peter's experience of
walking on water covers the steps that we have been studying about
becoming permanently free from tobacco and developing new habits
of behavior— forming a new character.
ASK THE RIGHT
PERSON
First of all, Peter asked the right person— he asked for divine help.
We have already seen the importance of asking, continually asking
for divine help. Right in the middle of business affairs, you can
send up a silent request to God, and He will hear and answer your
petition, although it is not verbalized.
CHOOSE TO TRUST
HIM
Second, Peter was acquainted with the divine Person whom he asked
for help and he trusted in this Person that He would help him. He
had so much faith in this Person that when the Lord told him to come
down out of the ship and walk on water, he believed. He did not say,
“Oh, no, I*ll sink if I do that.” He believed in the Person because
he was acquainted with Him. We have studied about becoming acquainted
with this very same Person— we become acquainted with Him just like
we become acquainted with anyone else, by talking to Him and listening
to Him talk to us, which He does through His Word.
Third, because
of this complete trust in the Person whom he had come to know and
love, Peter got down out of the ship and attempted to do something
that had always been impossible for him before— walk on water.
If we trust
Him and He tells us that He wants us to develop perfect self- control,
as He indeed does in I Corinthians 9: 24- 27, then we, too, will
attempt to do something that has always been impossible for us to
do before, such as becoming permanently free from tobacco.
Is it impossible
to walk on water? Is it impossible to be totally and permanently
free from tobacco? It may be just as impossible as walking on water,
but when you ask for divine help, place your trust in the Person
whom you are asking and begin to take action based on that trust,
a miracle starts happening in your life, and you start to walk on
water.
WHEN THE MIRACLE
BEGINS
So, Peter acted on his faith. He got down out of the ship, and because
he asked the right Person and he had faith and confidence in this
Person, he acted on his faith. When he acted on his faith, a miracle
began to happen in his life. This is a very important concept to understand—
when did the miracle begin to happen in Peter's life? It began to
happen when he acted on his faith.
God does not
begin to work a miracle in your life until you start to demonstrate
your faith in Him by doing something active while you trust in Him
to work a miracle in your life. Millions have experienced this miracle.
How about you? God stands behind every promise that He has made.
WHAT IF I START
TO SINK?
Now, the questions come, What if sometime I should do something wrong?
What if I should give in to my perverted craving for cigarettes sometime?
What if I should engage in an unhealthful practice at some time? What
then? Is everything last?
As soon as you
begin to practice a known unhealthful habit that you know is not
right, you lose the spiritual power that you have within and the
same thing happens to you that happened to Peter; immediately you
begin to sink. Peter looked at the problem— big waves, a big storm,
great surges of waves under his feet.
The same thing
can happen to you— you look around and you see a cloud of smoke
around you, on television, on billboards, in magazines; the lust
of the flesh, the cravings of the eye, the unhealthful habits, these
perverted cravings that you have been developing for years surround
you. Everything around you seems to be a temptation, and if you
look at the problem instead of looking to the One who is the solution
to the problem, you will begin to sink.
If you take
your eyes off of the One who can and will always be a never- failing
source of help for you and look at all the problems, immediately
you will begin to sink. The problem seems overwhelming. Discouragement
sinks in when you have a temporary failure and you say, “What happened?
I had victory yesterday and the day before that, and now, today,
it's not happening. What am I going to do? I am facing failure.
Is everything going to ruin?”
That is the
situation that Peter was facing. He was walking on water. He had
asked the right Person. He had put his trust in the right Person.
He had acted on his faith. A miracle had been occurring in his life.
But he took his eyes off of where the help was; and, friend, when
you look away from where the help is, you are automatically looking
at the problems. You start looking at your perverted cravings and
that cloud of smoke obscures your thinking. Right away you begin
to sink. What do you do then, when you are sinking and you are facing
failure?
Friend, you
must do what Peter did. You must say, “Lord, save me!” You must
look where the help is. You remember the text in the Bible that
says a righteous man falls seven times and rises again? Friend,
it does not take very long to sink; you may have been walking on
water for a longtime, but when you take your eyes off from where
the help is, when you start deciding to do it yourself, down you
go. When you lose your connection with your all- powerful divine
helper, you go down in the water (or smoke) very rapidly. Very fast
you can sink right back down to your old habits, your old, smoky
lifestyle.
What do you
do to keep this from happening? Remember to keep your eye on where
the help is, keep asking for divine help and keep taking action
on your confidence in that divine help. Keep studying the promises
in His Word and claiming those promises. The result will be that
you will keep on walking on water.
Here is a prayer
that you can pray: “Father in Heaven, I thank You for Your promises
and the divine miracles that they bring into my life. I come to
You to make request. I ask that You will give to me right now, that
miracle of grace that will give to me perfect freedom over tobacco.
Help me to act on my trust in You and to come down out of the ship
of complacency and inactivity and do what I know that I should do
as Your child, by Your grace. Help me to experience this miracle
that can keep happening in my life every day.
“If 1 make a
mistake, Lord, and I begin to sink, save me when I call. Help me
to turn me eyes toward You. I claim Your promise that You will help
me keep on experiencing that miracle in my life which will impart
to me that self- control over every craving of the flesh and of
the eyes. May I experience Your love in my heart every day which
will be a power over and against every wrong habit, for I come to
You in the all- powerful name of Jesus, Amen. “
HOW TO OBTAIN
DIVINE HELP OVER WRONG HABITS
1. Realize that
you need help to be set free from tobacco (John 15: 5; Jeremiah
33: 3).
2. Know that
God desires to provide this help to you (Isaiah 41: 10).
3. Acknowledge
your need and your willingness to come to God and fully cooperate
with Him in causing a complete change to happen in your life (Matthew
11: 28- 30). It is vital that you not live in a state of denial.
Acknowledge to God, verbally, your condition and need. Ask Him to
give to you a change of mind about tobacco. Tobacco is not to be
your master (Matthew 23: 10). This can only happen if you have a
change of mind (heart). Confess your guilt and ask for release from
the guilt and power of tobacco (I John 1: 9; Proverbs 28: 13).
4. Ask for divine
help to be set free from tobacco (Matthew 7: 7, 8).
5. Choose to
believe that God will fulfill His Word to give you perfect freedom
over tobacco (Mark 9: 22, 23).
6. Express trust
in God and His promise to help you gain perfect freedom from tobacco
(Luke 11: 13).
7. Act on your
belief by making a commitment to live a life of self- control enabled
by God*s power (John 1: 12). It is not enough to be sorry. You must
actively turn away from your former lifestyle (I Corinthians 9:
24- 27).
8. Spend time
fixing the divine promises in your memory. These promises will bring
power into your life when you are assailed by perverted cravings.
This is the weapon that Jesus Himself used when He was tempted on
appetite (Matthew 4: 4).
9. Ask for help
in every time of temptation (Luke 18: 1, 7, 8; James 4: 7- 9). (God
is not wearied by your continued requests for deliverance.)
10. Express
your joy verbally; thank God for helping you to control your appetite
(Philippians 4: 4- 7).
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