Several examples are given in the Bible of men and women who would not give up. One outstanding example of this is found in the Old Testament, and because this man would not give up, you will meet him in heaven someday, if you are saved. The Holy Spirit is working on your heart, but you have to make the decision to never give up. There have been (and still are) people who have found themselves in a situation where they could be saved, but they gave up, and they lost out. There are several such examples in the Bible, but here, we want to learn about the person who would not give up, and who was saved as a result.
This Bible story is about one of the most well-known men in the entire Bible, and you have probably read the story of his life in the book of Genesis. This man was a miracle child. His father’s wife had been unable to have children. After 20 years, his father prayed, “Lord, you promised that we would have children, and through us all the world would be blessed. My wife cannot conceive. What am I going to do?” The Lord answered his prayer (Genesis 25:21), and his wife became pregnant with twins.
But these two babies were rambunctious, fighting inside her womb. She went to the Lord concerned, and He told her that two nations, two peoples struggled within her body, and that one would be stronger than the other when they became men (Verses 22, 23).
When these twin sons were born, the coloring of the first was red, so in Hebrew, they named him Edom or red. In English, he is called Esau (Verse 25). When the younger was born, the Bible says that he grabbed hold of his brother’s heel. In Hebrew, he was named Yàaqob or heel grabber. In English, he is called Jacob. The name heel grabber implied a person of cunning, someone to be wary of because he will take advantage of you. That is exactly the kind of person Jacob became.
Firstborn Responsibilities
Until modern times, it has been the custom—not just with the children of Isaac and Abraham, but throughout the Middle East—that the firstborn had certain responsibilities which the other children did not have. For example, the firstborn was to be responsible for the welfare of their parents and to support them in their old age. When the firstborn became an adult, he or she was expected to resolve their siblings’ problems. Because the firstborn child had these extra responsibilities, it was an ancient custom that, when the father’s inheritance was divided among his children, the firstborn was to receive a double portion.
Isaac had only two children, so it is easy to calculate. If the firstborn received a double portion, it would mean that the firstborn would receive two-thirds of the family estate and the other child would be given one-third.
Theft and Deceit
Jacob was just a few minutes younger, but he was the heel grabber, a smart businessman, one who knew how to take advantage of circumstances. He knew when the opportunity was ripe.
One day, Jacob while caring for the flocks and herds, he made a lentil stew. Esau, who had been hunting, returned ravenously hungry and, smelling the savory dish Jacob had prepared, said, “Please give me something to eat. I am so hungry; I am about to die.”
Jacob recognized a golden opportunity, and he responded: “I will give you a bowl of stew, if you will sell me your birthright.” Talk about a deal! Isaac was a very wealthy man. One-third of his estate would be worth several hundred thousand dollars in today’s money. How would you like to double your net worth for a bowl of lentils? That was one expensive meal. A slave to his appetite, Esau agreed. “I will do it.” He said. It was a foolish thing for Esau to do, but it was a sharp thing for Jacob, although a very wicked thing.
Are you aware of the meaning of the eighth commandment? If I sell you something for much more than it is worth, because you are ignorant and do not know any better, I have stolen from you. And if I buy something from you for much less than it is worth, because you do not know its worth, I have stolen from you. Jacob stole from his brother. He was a thief in the worst sense, because he stole from his own family. But it got worse. He eventually deceived his own father.
Jacob stole from his brother and deceived his own father. It is terrible to steal from your own brother, and it is just as bad or worse to lie and deceive your own father. God did not keep Jacob from having to bear some very terrible consequences for those two sins all the rest of his life.
When reading the Bible, people could say, “These are the chief characters of the Bible, and look at all of the awful things they did.” But what they do not see is that the chief characters of the Bible paid a terrible price for the horrible sins they committed. The Bible teaches that sin always has consequences.
Esau became very angry with Jacob, and it is not difficult to understand why. How would you feel if you had just lost several hundred thousand dollars to your brother—cheated out of it because you were nearly out of your mind with hunger? Would you become angry? I have seen people become angry for a lot less than that!
Esau said, “I am going to do away with him. Instead of getting one-third of the inheritance, as I am now supposed to receive, I will get the whole thing.” And Jacob had to flee from home, never to see his parents again.
The Whole Inheritance
In 1955, the very first airliner with a bomb on board crashed. At that time, it was not mandatory for air travelers to go through security before boarding an airplane. A passenger bought his or her ticket, deposited their baggage, walked through a door, and got on the plane. I have done that, and I have seen my father do it many times. The world then was not as wicked as it is today.
This airplane came down in a field near Longmont, Colorado, within ten miles of where my family lived. A bomb in the baggage compartment had exploded, killing everyone on board. An investigation revealed that a man, whose mother was traveling on this plane, had hidden a bomb in her luggage. He had a time clock on the bomb, timed to explode over the Rocky Mountains. He planned that the plane would go down in the Rocky Mountains, and it would be considered just an accident. Everything would be completely destroyed; no one would know what had actually happened. But the plane departed late. Consequently, the timer went off, the bomb exploded, and the plane crashed in a field 15-20 miles east of the Rocky Mountains.
Why had this man performed such a deadly act? He did not want to wait for his mother to die a natural death; he wanted to receive his mother’s life insurance—his inheritance—right then.
That was Esau’s problem. He wanted his inheritance, and he thought, “Jacob stole my inheritance from me. I will not only get back a double portion; I will get the whole thing.” So, Jacob had to flee for his life. He went to his mother’s brother, Laban, and served him for 20 years (Genesis 28–30).
20 Years of Guilt
Picking up the story in Genesis 31, we find that Jacob, now a fugitive, had been serving Laban for 20 years. He had come to Laban with nothing, but the Lord had blessed him, and he had become a very wealthy man. Laban’s sons were jealous of all the wealth that Jacob had acquired. They said, “He has taken all of our father’s wealth.”
Laban had deceived Jacob, so instead of having one wife, he had two, and Jacob’s entire life was troubled. Laban’s deception and the trouble that resulted from having two wives were a consequence of his sin and he knew it. The sin that he had committed against his brother and father bothered his conscience all those 20 years. That entire time he thought, “I would not be in this situation if I had not deceived my father and robbed my brother.”
Return to Your People
Then the Lord gave Jacob instruction to return to his people: “Jehovah spoke to Jacob, ‘Return to the land of your fathers and to your kindred, and I will be with you.’ ” (Verse 3). Jacob was anxious about returning home. Esau lived back home.
Jacob called Rachel and Leah out into the field and talked with them. They agreed that Jacob and his household should follow God’s counsel (Verses 4, 14–16). Believing that Laban would not let him go, he left secretly while Laban was away shearing his sheep. Jacob packed up—lock, stock, and barrel—and left Uncle Laban’s land. Because of the thousands of cattle, sheep, and goats, they were unable to travel very fast, so when Laban learned they were gone, he was able to easily overtake them. God had intervened on Jacob’s behalf regarding Laban, and the two parted peaceably. The first part of God’s promise was accomplished.
Close to Home
Can you imagine the tumultuous thoughts in Jacob’s mind, as he drew close to his journey’s end? For the last 20 years, Jacob had lived in a faraway land. During that time, Esau assumed that, as a consequence of Jacob’s absence, he, Esau, would inherit everything upon Isaac’s death. But now Jacob returns. Jacob owns two-thirds of the inheritance. Esau’s net worth would drop by over 60 percent when Jacob returned home. This is also on Jacob’s mind. He knows that the reason he is in this difficult situation is because of his own sin. He knows what is going through Esau’s mind.
Interests of Brothers
Let’s look at the difference between Esau and Jacob. They both wanted the birthright. The birthright involved more than a double portion of the family’s wealth. It also involved a blessing. The one holding the birthright would become the progenitor (ancestor) of the Messiah. Esau wanted the double portion of property and worldly wealth, but Jacob wanted the blessing, to be the progenitor of the Messiah.
Jacob, actually, in spite of all his character deficiencies and faults, was a very, very remarkable person. He chose spiritual blessings over temporal blessings, a rare type of person in this world.
Jacob knew his return would excite fear in his brother’s heart and that Esau could do him great injury. He thought that Esau could decide even now to take revenge against him and kill him, taking the entire inheritance for himself.
Gifts of Appeasement
So, as Genesis 32 tells us, in an effort to appease Esau, Jacob sent very expensive gifts to him, worth many, many thousands of dollars today, including a large herd of cattle. After delivering the cattle, Jacob’s servants returned and told Jacob that Esau was on his way, with 400 men, to meet Jacob (Verses 3–6). Verse 7 tells us that Jacob was “exceedingly afraid and distressed.” In fact, the entire encampment—wives, children, and servants alike—were terrified of what Esau would do.
Jacob did everything he could. He continued to send expensive gifts to Esau. He divided his family into two camps, so that if the people of one camp were killed, the others might be able to flee. Yes, Jacob did everything he could, but he knew that it was not enough. Jacob and his family were about to meet Esau’s wrath.
Divine Help Needed
Jacob was a shrewd businessman and knew how to make deals. But those skills were useless now. There was no business deal that he could make that would get him out of this, and he knew that unless the Lord intervened on his behalf, it was going to be all over.
Jacob was standing in the realization that there was nothing he could do to save himself. This is a reality we also must learn. We cannot be good, keep God’s commandments, nor be made ready for heaven on our own. It doesn’t matter how smart and shrewd a person we are.
Just as Jacob realized he needed divine help, we must know that we cannot save ourselves by anything we do. Divine power must be operating in our lives or we are lost. The Bible is very clear about this. We may try our whole lives, but we will never be able to develop enough self-control or power; we can never make ourselves a good person.
I have been a preacher for a long time, and I learned long ago that I am a lot more afraid of the good people than of the bad people. People who think they are good do not realize that, as the Bible says, the “heart [is] deceitful above all [things], and desperately wicked.” Jeremiah 17:9. The bad people at least know they need help.
Jacob was a smart man, but the Lord allowed him to suffer the consequences of his actions, and thereby recognize that unless he had divine help, it was all over. The sooner that you and I learn that lesson, the better off we will be.
To be continued …
[Bible texts quoted are literal translation.]
Pastor John J. Grosboll is the Director of Steps to Life and pastors the Prairie Meadows Church in Wichita, Kansas. He may be reached by email at historic@stepstolife.org or by telephone at 316-788-5559.