“Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.”
Galatians 6:2
One Sabbath morning in March, 2022, at the Whitwell, Tennessee Seventh-day Adventist Church (a mission church), I watched and heard an Outpost Centers International (OCI) report broadcast on YouTube during Sabbath School. The host of the broadcast was Steve Dickman, president of OCI and a leader at the Harbert Hills Academy west of Nashville, Tennessee. OCI is made up of independent Adventist ministries all over the world. The report was concerning the crisis the Ukrainian people are facing since Russia began its attack in February, 2022.
Listening to the report, my heart was immediately struck by the word “war” and the pictures of people fleeing their homes. I was 3 ½ years old and my brother was 15 months old when our soldier father died near the demilitarized zone in Korea. My mother was in her 20s and my father was 25. We grew up with a loving, hardworking mother and grandparents who gave us lots of attention. We had a stepfather, but as we grew a little older, we ached for the love and affection of our own father.
So on that day, in Sabbath School, when I saw and heard about the crisis in Ukraine, I was pierced in my heart for the pain of the people and families directly involved in the conflict—on both sides of the battle. Human beings want to live! They don’t generally want to die. Women don’t want to lose their sons or brothers through war or violence. A wife doesn’t want to be notified by telegram or by two uniformed men knocking at the door that her husband has been killed by a landmine.
Following church I went home and watched the OCI reports again. I had been asking God for a new assignment. I was ready for another assignment, but nothing had presented itself until I heard about the work in Ukraine that Sabbath morning. I applied to help Gideon Rescue Company (GRC) pass out encouraging tracts such as “Where is God when I’m Hurting?” to those fleeing from the east to the west side of the country. The purchase of these tracts was funded by an Adventist brother and approved of by the church in Ukraine.
As I talked to one of the GRC leaders in Ardmore, Oklahoma, I told him up front that I was 74 years old! I wanted to be transparent and to only go if useful. He replied that “Joshua and Caleb were old when they went into the promised land, so I think we can use you!” I had two hands and two feet to pass out the spiritual bread of life to those who would receive it. When I hung up the phone, I was kind of floating on air.
When I was given permission to travel with the team, there were some who didn’t think I should go and were verbal about it. But friends, there is no retirement from God’s Army, regardless of your age. My heart knew that if God wanted me to go, He would provide for my needs. It was in God’s hands. “God’s people are to be united in the accomplishment of one great work. They are to make a combined effort of consecration. By a tender, respectful regard for one another, they are to cherish the influence that works for the recovery of sinners. As good soldiers of the cross they are to strive to win sinners to loyalty.” The Review and Herald, July 21, 1903
Within four or five days, I had the money needed to make the journey. The biggest challenge was packing for the trip. Though most of the team would only be gone from home a little over one week, I knew I would not go for such a short time since I was single and had no one to financially support. My initial return ticket was for months later!
March 28, 2022, arrived and a very supportive lady friend took me to a Groome Transportation station for the ride to the airport. The first leg of my flight was from Atlanta to Dallas. GRC had arranged for me to stay with a family in the Dallas area until I caught my flight to Amsterdam the next day. Doane, his wife, and children were so kind to me. I was deeply touched and grateful for their kindness and hospitality.
It was not until I arrived in Amsterdam that I met Greg and his 10-year-old son David, who left Dallas the same day I did, but on a different flight. They were part of the team coming from Ardmore, Oklahoma, and they had the biggest smiles I’d ever seen! We also met a retired gentleman, a New York City firefighter, who had survived the 9/11 catastrophe. Going on the trip was catharsis for him. He had a lot of emotional pain and felt that helping others would help him heal.
We traveled to Poland together on our final flight. After sleeping in a church one night in Poland, a church contact took us to Lviv, Ukraine, where we would stay for about five days. There we met the other members of our team: two young American ladies who had been in the city for at least two weeks before we arrived, two European young men, a former Mennonite young man, and Brock, our team leader, whom I had initially talked to.
The church where we stayed housed many people who were seeking refuge. The ladies of the church fed all of us three times a day. We collated tracts and prepared to hand them out along with small handmade pictures for children which had been made by pupils from the Adventist Academy in Ardmore, Oklahoma.
For about four days, we gave out these hope-giving, life-giving tracts to people near the crowded train station. At the end of the day, we met to pray and share our experiences in offering encouragement and the bread of life to those hurting people. Some people were not interested in receiving what we had to give, others wanted to talk and we listened and prayed with them. The local churches had set up tents near the train station in Lviv and other local people offered hot food, such as borscht, or medical services to those needing it. Sometime later, when my young partner, Stanley, went to Poland many months later, he was able to offer fruit with the literature he was giving out. People liked that! Stanley is a quiet, shy young man who loves to sing and share God’s love with others. By the time you read this, he will be in Germany, the land of his ancestors, and I am sure he will be sharing God’s love with all whom he meets.
Our group also included at least two nurses, a paramedic, and others trained in disaster response. They held a class for civilians addressing helpful medical techniques to use in case of emergency. This was not a planned activity, but something they were requested to do by authorities. This was an emotionally difficult thing for them to do. One man told me he never thought he’d be training people to defend themselves and help others in the midst of a war.
The time in Lviv went by quickly and when the men who had families left and the two young women who had been there the longest departed, Stanley and I were the only Americans remaining. We were advised to go south to a “safer area.” I smiled and said “I didn’t come here looking for safety.” However, since people in Chernivtsi had shown an interest in our coming, we left to go there the next day.
When we arrived in the southern-most part of western Ukraine, we were able to share some medical equipment with a dedicated doctor in that city. The new equipment was given to us by a group of Mormons who had been volunteering there and wanted it put to good use. It was one of many divine providences that God arranged. Within a few days, Stanley went to a church camp, which was and still is (as of this writing), serving orphans of many different ages. It is in a very rural area and he felt he could be of more use there than in the city. Most of these children had been orphaned before the war began. Their home place was destroyed in the war and the Seventh-day Adventist camp manager was asked to shelter them. To this day, the staff continues to run the camp, feeding, providing clothes, and keeping the children warm and active. Some are transported by bus to a nearby school. The original overseers of the children who came with the orphans need your prayers. Their hearts need to be opened to feel gratitude for what God is doing for them through the church camp staff. Some are distanced from our heavenly Father. The children need our prayers to feel the love and compassion Christ has for them as seen through the lives of the Christian staff members. The staff who work unselfishly to support and minister to these needy ones need wisdom, patience, and sincere devotion to God, to be faithful in their positions of influence.
Many churches and probably other schools besides the church school where I stayed, were housing families and individuals whose lives were in danger—IDPs. “What is an IDP?” I wondered. Dr. “Y” told me that means an internally displaced person. You see, one is not a refugee until he or she has left their own country. I lived with them, ate with them, slept in the same building with them. At times we communicated through a phone translator, or through a real person who knew both English and Ukrainian or Russian. Smiles and hugs communicated feelings also. Genuine politeness, sharing, listening, and acts of kindness can show others God’s love for them. When people ask me, “How did you communicate when you didn’t know the language?” I am reminded of the phrase: “a picture is worth a thousand words.” People watch you, and can learn a lot by the way you behave. I did study the language through a phone app so I could speak some Ukrainian. Some people only spoke Russian, so learning just one language was not necessarily enough!
At the local free clinic, people from Kiev and Chernivtsi worked together to help those in need. Having been a nurse, I was asked to draw blood, but it had been almost 34 years since my last blood draw. I was ashamed that I felt I couldn’t do it, and I hate to inflict pain, but I didn’t want to cause more anxiety in people if I was unable to get their blood drawn, so I declined. The doctor in charge put me to work helping his staff learn more English. They anticipated having others come from other countries to help and he knew most of the staff did not know much English. With the help of some kind and patient staff members, I was able to present some classes to them. Most lessons were a mix of medical terms, songs, encouraging words, and thoughts from the Bible.
I really didn’t go to Ukraine with the intention of teaching English, but I was blessed to have two very special, local preteens as biweekly students. Twice a week I was able to meet with these diligent preteens and we developed a close relationship. They and their parents, the school principal, and others really wanted the English classes. For them it was a gift during a difficult time.
The huge, prestigious church school which the girls normally attended was largely not functioning due to the IDPs being housed in the school classrooms. Older students held classes using a Zoom-type platform. Unlike language curriculum used in teaching English in other countries, we used the Bible for our lesson content. They memorized Psalm 57:1 and we repeated it every class time. I taught them several songs. “Make Me a Servant” was one of them. Another was “My God Loves Me” and they enjoyed that one also. Not using the board at all, we played Scrabble and they enjoyed it a lot. One of the older IDP teens who lived with us for a while helped me teach them because he knew English better than they did.
I am still in touch with these girls and another bright IDP their age who joined our class later. May their desire ever be to know our Father better and His Son whom He sent. The school principal told me that their parents were very happy about the faith-based lessons. I praise God for the opportunity to share Him with them! May God be glorified through these girls.
I had not been in Chernivtsi very long when a young doctor from the free, church-sponsored clinic invited me to visit a patient at the local hospital with him. The patient was a young lady about 20 years old. She was lying in a very small, plain hospital room in what appeared to be an older part of the building. Her family lived far away and was not helpful to her the doctor said, and she could not navigate on her own without a wheelchair or crutches. She didn’t know a lot of English, but she had been a struggling college student when the war broke out. The doctor left us alone for a while and we communicated through our phone translators and body language. After I left her, the doctor who had brought me there said that neither the doctors at the hospital nor those at the clinic where he worked knew what to do with her. She had had all the tests they could afford to give her and without more money, the hospital would not or could not do anything more. I felt very sad for this smiling, young lady.
Soon an anonymous donation was received so that she could be transferred to an Adventist Health International lifestyle center in Ukraine. I had heard about a place called “Our Home” while I was at the Wildwood Medical Missionary School in Georgia a few years ago, and thought it would be the best place for her, but her doctor told me there was a lifestyle center much closer. However, it would be necessary for someone to stay with and care for her at the facility. Someone had been chosen to go with her, but she had other things she wanted or needed to do. When I heard that, I volunteered.
It was an interesting experience to see this young lady getting, almost daily, clay poultices put directly on her legs, hands, and feet. A couple of hours later I would be helping her unwrap from the saran wrap-type bandages. She received massage therapy, physical therapy, and time in a Jacuzzi. I will call her “Patience” because we both needed a lot of it at times. I could not leave her when she had a chance to get physically better. She had had a difficult childhood and I wanted her to become more self-sufficient.
Besides the kind doctor and therapists who treated her, she was transported by wheelchair by two special gentlemen from the northern part of the country. They themselves had left their homes due to the crisis and were working at the center. What a blessing of patient endurance they were to all of us. They transported her over grassy areas that would have been hard for me to navigate. They carried her up many steep steps each Sabbath so she could attend the services. Their own families had fled to Poland to escape harm. Before the three weeks were up, Patience was walking with just one crutch and sometimes with none at all! We were able to return to Chernivtsi together and she is staying with other IDPs in that general area today.
An older gentleman, I’ll call him “Van,” came to Chernivtsi for refuge with his son. Van was about 80 years old and his son “Ivan” was approximately 50. Ivan’s wife and child had gone to another country when the conflict began, but he stayed in Ukraine to help his father. Ivan and younger men often were asked to help with the many tasks involved with feeding and clothing the ever increasing influx of people. Sometimes older men just sat around and talked, but Van was different. He wanted to work. He wanted to be useful. It was a joy to see him sweeping the playground and area near the dining hall. He was deaf and mute, but had a lovely demeanor. I was drawn to him by his humble attitude and his work ethic. Sometimes I was able to sit with him at the back of the congregation on Sabbath.
I met a number of older ladies in Chernivtsi who were cared for by the local church, cooks, and teachers from the private school. One of my favorite ladies, I’ll call her “Vera,” used a walker, but could not navigate steps which kept her from attending the meals in the dining room. Her son faithfully brought her meals three times a day. She slept on a mattress on the floor with many other people (adults and children), but I never heard her complain. She was always happy and thankful when I went to treat her legs.
I was staying in a room at the local school, and Mikolai, a math teacher, was staying in the computer room of the school. He had also been displaced and was sleeping on a mattress by night and communicating with his distant students by day. He helped me with the setup of the computer as I prepared lessons for the clinic workers and local students. He was such a kind man and tolerant of my needing access to a computer.
Natalie was a 60-something-year-old physical therapist who had owned her own prosperous business with a number of physical therapists under her. When I met her, she was humbly sorting clothing donations in the huge gymnasium which had been converted into a makeshift thrift shop with clothing in piles on the floor. We became friends because I’d agreed to work with her teenage granddaughter who wanted to improve her already decent English. She was always trying to help me and invited me to her newly-rented, very small apartment for borscht and tea. A few times I met her at her daughter’s family’s apartment (also newly acquired) for a sweet cake with tea. She always looked tired, but she smiled through the heaviness in her heart and we came to love each other.
It was refreshing to see people helping each other and never complaining about their plight. One day, a woman handed me one of the many pieces of shrapnel which she found in her home. Yes, pain was present in that place, but she didn’t appear angry. It seemed that people were focusing on what they had, which was food, clothing, and shelter. They comforted each other by taking turns keeping their space clean and going for walks in nearby parks, singing, and having devotions together at night. We were like a big family. Were we angels? No, but generally speaking, normally, people got along with each other.
Please pray for wisdom for the people of Ukraine and Russia whose lives are forever changed because of the wickedness of men. Our everyday challenge is to remain faithful soldiers of the cross. If we have enlisted in God’s Army, the Holy Spirit daily puts challenges before us.
It is my hope and earnest prayer that we may, by beholding, become so like our Saviour in character that we will reflect His glory to the ever-darkening world around us. It is time to rise up, men and women of God! Put on His armor and pray, for your very life depends on it.
Sandy L. Roberts is a new member of the Steps to Life staff. She may be contacted by email at sandyroberts@stepstolife.org