What does it mean to be born again? Christians often ponder this question, seeking a deeper understanding. Jesus said to Nicodemus, “Most assuredly, I say to you, unless one is born of water and the Spirit, he cannot enter the kingdom of God.” John 3:5. He also told him not to be surprised by His words, but Nicodemus still wondered, “How can these things be?” Verse 9
When born into this world, we are born of the flesh—our natural, carnal nature (the will of man). As a result, every human being has failed to keep the law of God (Romans 3:23). And because of this inheritance, we are sold under sin (Romans 7:14), are at enmity with God (James 4:4), and cannot keep the law of God, even if we wanted to because our carnal nature prevents it. However, obedience is a requirement for receiving the gift of salvation.
The Holy Spirit speaks to my carnal heart, enabling me to see my unfaithfulness and disobedience to my heavenly Father. This personal journey of realization and repentance is a deeply introspective and contemplative process. I can see that Christ came to this world to bear my sins on the cross, and I can see just how sinful I am and how much I have hurt my Best Friend. Sorrowful and remorseful, I cry out, as did Paul, “O wretched man that I am! Who will deliver me from this body of death?” Romans 7:24
“Such is the cry that has gone up from burdened hearts in all lands and all ages. To all, there is but one answer, ‘Behold the Lamb of God, which taketh away the sin of the world.’ John 1:29.” The Faith I Live By, 96
The first step in the Christian life is repentance, which allows the Holy Spirit to produce in me a new life that is obedient to God, believes in Jesus as my personal Saviour, and commits my life to His sovereignty (The Desire of Ages, 175). Only then am I truly born again.
“I delight to do Your will, O my God, and Your law is within my heart.” Psalm 40:8